Just to bring up this point again.
It has been commented on before and observed that the WT has an agenda to make the Borg more important than family. The Borg has a way to insert itself in place of the family.
For instance the Dfing policy,,the removal of holidays. Taking away these family activities and putting the focus on the Borg,,,in regards to holidays.
The Dfing is no different. The Borg inserts itself in place of families. The removal of someone because of a "trivial" matter.
Cults take away family,,,the Borg operates on every parallel.
Placing itself in place of family,,,takes away family.